This site is dedicated to the memory of Dr. Alan William Smolowe who gave birth to the creation of this database.
American Etiquette Expert
"The attributes of a great lady may still be found in the rule of the four S's: Sincerity, Simplicity, Sympathy and Serenity."
"Ideal conversation must be an exchange of thought, and not, as many of those who worry most about their shortcomings believe, an eloquent exhibition of wit or oratory. "
"Nothing is less important than which fork you use. Etiquette is the science of living. It embraces everything. It is ethics. It is honor. "
"Manners are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others. If you have that awareness, you have good manners, no matter what fork you use. "