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Adam Smith

People of the same trade seldom meet together, even for merriment and diversion, but the conversation ends in a conspiracy against the public, or in some contrivance to raise prices.

Conspiracy | Conversation | Diversion | Ends | People | Public |

Baltasar Gracián

If to talk to oneself when alone is folly, it must be doubly unwise to listen to oneself in the presence of others... In conversation discretion is more important than eloquence.

Conversation | Discretion | Folly | Important |

Charles Caleb Colton

By reading, we enjoy the dead; by conversation, the living; and by contemplation, ourselves. Reading enriches the memory, conversation polishes the wit; and contemplation improves the judgment. Of these, reading is the most important, as it furnishes both the others.

Contemplation | Conversation | Important | Judgment | Memory | Reading | Wit | Contemplation |

Chinese Proverbs

A single conversation across the table with a wise man is worth a month's study of books.

Books | Conversation | Man | Study | Wise | Worth |

Francis Bacon

It is good discretion not to make too much of any man at the first; because one cannot hold out that proportion.

Discretion | Good | Man |

Hannah More

Perish discretion when it interferes with duty.

Discretion | Duty |

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

A single conversation across the table with a wise man is better than ten years' mere study of books.

Better | Books | Conversation | Man | Study | Wise |

Isaac Watts

Reading and conversation may furnish us with many ideas of men and things, yet it is our own meditation that must form our judgment.

Conversation | Ideas | Judgment | Meditation | Men | Reading |

Joseph Addison

The true happiness is of a retired nature, and an enemy to pomp and noise; it arises in the first place, from the enjoyment of one's self; and in the next, from the friendship and conversation of a few select companions; it loves shade and solitude, and naturally haunts groves and fountains, fields and meadows; in short, it feels everything it wants within itself, and receives no addition from multitudes of witnesses and spectators. On the contrary, false happiness loves to be in a crowd, and to draw the eyes of the world upon her. She does not receive satisfaction from the applauses which she gives herself, but from the admiration which she raises in others. She flourishes in courts and palaces, theaters and assemblies, and has no existence but when she is looked upon.

Admiration | Conversation | Enemy | Enjoyment | Existence | Nature | Noise | Receive | Self | Solitude | Wants | World | Friendship | Happiness |

Joseph Addison

Good-nature is more agreeable in conversation than wit, and gives a certain air to the countenance which is more amiable than beauty. It shows virtue in the fairest light; takes off in some measure from the deformity of vice; and makes even folly and impertinence supportable.

Beauty | Conversation | Folly | Good | Impertinence | Light | Nature | Virtue | Virtue | Wit |

Joseph Addison

In private conversation between intimate friends, the wisest men very often talk like the weakest; for indeed the talking with a friend is nothing else but thinking aloud.

Conversation | Friend | Men | Nothing | Talking | Thinking |

Joseph Addison

One would think that the larger the company is in which we are engaged, the greater variety of thoughts and subjects would be started into discourse; but, instead of this we find that conversation is never so much straightened and confined, as in numerous assemblies.

Conversation | Think |

Lord Chesterfield, Philip Dormer Stanhope, 4th Earl of Chesterfield

Judgment is not upon all occasions required, but discretion always is.

Discretion | Judgment |

Maltbie Babcock, fully Maltbie Davenport Babcock

“Take heed how ye hear” is a genuine monition touching happy relations - a real injunction under the law of love. Let us not think it applies only to the way we hear sermons. How do you listen to the conversation of your friends? With half-parted lips ready to break in with your own opinions? With the wandering eye of one evidently uninterested? Is this the love that helps another to be his best? Do you like to be well listened to? Mind, then, the give and take of love, and be a good listener, and for truth’s sake as well as love’s.

Conversation | Good | Happy | Law | Love | Mind | Truth | Think |

Muhammad Ali, born Cassius Marcellus Clay, Jr.

God... created man; He has also created the circumstances under which he lives and acts; but still He has endowed man with discretion to choose how to act... And as he can exercise his discretion or his will in doing a thing or not doing it, he is responsible for his own deeds, and made to suffer the consequences.

Circumstances | Consequences | Deeds | Discretion | God | Man | Will |

Plato NULL

There is nothing so delightful as the hearing, or the speaking of truth. For this reason, there is no conversation so agreeable as that of the man of integrity, who hears without any intention to betray, and speaks without any intention to deceive.

Conversation | Integrity | Intention | Man | Nothing | Reason | Truth |

Ralph Waldo Emerson

The secret of success in society is a certain heartiness and sympathy. A man who is not happy in company, cannot find any word in his memory that will fit the occasion; all his information is a little impertinent. A man who is happy there, finds in every turn of the conversation occasions for the introduction of what he has to say. The favorites of society are able men, and of more spirit than wit, who have no uncomfortable egotism, but who exactly fills the hour and the company, contented and contending.

Conversation | Happy | Little | Man | Memory | Men | Society | Spirit | Success | Sympathy | Will | Wit | Society |